Brave, Bold and Ready: How to Plan the Best. Year. Ever.

Is it time to recreate, renew, rejuvenate, re-imagine or renovate your life? Read on to learn more ...

As 2026 approaches, it's fun to reflect on the past year - what went well, what you achieved, your struggles and challenges, what you'd like more or less of, and what your hopes are for the year ahead.

Perhaps you're yearning for something new or finally feel ready to overcome the things that have held you back? At the end of this year, what is calling to you?

If you have been juggling it all for some time: career, partner, friendships, children, family, personal and external expectations (and perhaps everyone else’s needs), you may be ready for something else. Something quietly authentic and possibly long overdue... maybe something that has been in the background all along? Can you feel it? A desire for change, growth, healing? A fresh chapter?

If that’s you, then this is your personal invitation to take that next step in 2026.

Transformation doesn’t usually arrive with fireworks. Instead, it begins as a gentle restlessness. A feeling that you’re capable of so much more, even if you’re not quite sure what that “more” looks like yet. Perhaps you feel stuck in a job that no longer fits or are questioning a relationship dynamic. Maybe you’re noticing that your self-esteem has slowly taken a back seat over the years.

Planning ahead for 2026 isn’t about setting rigid resolutions or applying unrealistic pressure to yourself (those things are rarely helpful). It’s about imagining your personal best hopes and setting meaningful goals that align with who you're becoming, not just who you’ve been.

Why Planning Ahead Matters

When life feels busy or overwhelming, it’s easy to stay in that rut simply because it’s familiar. Planning gives you space to step back and ask the bigger questions:

• What do I actually want more of in my life?

• What drains me - and conversely, what energises me?

• If fear wasn’t running the show, what would I try?

• If I couldn't fail, what would I be doing right now?

Grab a new notebook, create a vision-board, set up an ideas box or open a brand-new spreadsheet or document. Brain-dump all of your answers to the above questions. Write, type, draw and imagine. Use your favourite colours, figures, sketches and pasted images along with words. Be creative with it and don't censor any of your thoughts.

• Imagine your ideal life. Who is with you, what you would be feeling, where would you be?

Giving yourself permission to dream big is an act of pure courage. It’s also an act of genuine self-respect and self-compassion (my favourite things for you) ...

How to Dream Big (Warning: It May Feel Uncomfortable at First)

Dreaming big doesn’t mean quitting your job tomorrow or making dramatic, all-or-nothing changes overnight. It might mean imagining a delicious career pivot, setting healthier boundaries with specific other people, wanting deeper connections in your relationships, arranging personally satisfying adventures, learning a new thing or finally feeling confident in your own (beautiful) skin.

Many women hesitate here, telling themselves it’s “way too late”, “way too hard” or “way too risky.” But growth almost always requires tenacity. A first step, a lift off.... Feeling unsure doesn’t mean you’re not ready - it means you’re wonderfully human. And humans are cautious... BUT even sensible, cautious humans have the potential to achieve much-wanted hopes and deeply held yearnings.

You’ve got this. If you choose to take that first tiny step...

Turning Dreams into Goals

Your best hopes become achievable when they’re broken into very small, realistic steps. Instead of focusing on the entire journey, try asking:

• What’s one small change that I could make today that would take me closer to my big dream?

• What information or support would make this feel safer?

• How can I back myself, just a little more? What would it look like?

• What small reminders will help me to keep my dream alive on a daily basis?

This is where counselling can be especially helpful. A supportive therapeutic space allows you to safely explore your goals, unpack self-doubt, and gently challenge the beliefs that may be holding you back.

You don’t need to have all the answers - just a willingness and a curiosity to begin.

2026 Can Be Your Year

Imagining your best life isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about reconnecting with yourself - your values, your true strengths, your uniqueness and your untapped capability. As you plan ahead for 2026, please know that wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful. It makes you self-respecting, dynamic, brave and alive.

If you’re ready to do something amazing (and a little courageous), support is available. You don’t have to navigate change alone.

Dream big. Take meaningful, achievable steps. Get support. Trust yourself.

Carolyn xx

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I've been a registered Counsellor in practice since 2016. I specialise in relationships, grief and life transitions, assisting clients to self-reflect, process past hurts, increase emotional skillsets and improve their lives. I see clients in person in Whittlesea Vic, or via Zoom or phone. I am also a Clinical Supervisor, assisting other Counsellors to do their best work. Please feel welcome to follow the links to find out more or place a booking.

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